Women are the soul of their marriages and the core of their families. The stronger our families will
be, the stronger the Church will be. This means that the same way the soul administrates our
thoughts, emotions, feelings and volition from our being, women can administrate either positive or
negative things with the same passion in their marital homes.
A company with a strong administration is bound to prosper and will be able to stand against any
obstacle to its functioning. The same is true when it comes to our homes. It is the woman who sets
the temperature and environment in the home, which will determine that which is possible to be
cultivated and grown in her family. Women who are effective are those who are connected to the
purpose of God and are successful in connecting their homes to that purpose.
It will take your personal commitment to your assignment to fulfill your destiny. You were created to
be a passionate being, but this passion was given to you to fuel you into fulfilling the purpose of
God.
Women usually come under the pressures of trying to accomplish several things at the same time.
But due to your in-Christ identity, you can suppress these pressures by finding your rest in Christ. It
is now the perfect time for you to use all of your gifts, talents and potentials, and become the
purposeful woman God created you to be. Know that this will require some drastic changes in your
life. I will share with you some practical truths I have learned from my husband.
- Seek God’s authority and not man’s majority! Being addicted to people’s approval will hinder
you from having God’s best. Many times the will of God is the most unpopular thing to do.
When this happens, remember that you are to keep your motives and intentions pure and
God will always rise to your defense. - Serve in the local church without expecting to receive the right to vote. Trust in God; believe
in His integrity and His ability to reward you. Do not use your service as a means to obtain
people’s admiration or seek to establish your popularity. - Refuse to receive without giving as a response of what you have received. When you give,
give without being motivated with the desire to be recognized and God Himself will reward
you openly. - Become a trustworthy woman of one heart and mind. Be a person whose authorities,
husband, family and friends can trust in confidently and rely on your sincerity. Be without
malice and it will be much easier for people to trust you. - Do not be idle. If no one has employed you, employ yourself and do something with your
hands to have what you can use to invest in the church and your household. The word of
God says it is a more than virtuous woman who brings food to her household from a far
country (Proverbs 31:10-31). - Honor authority, for the honor you give to your father and mother in the Lord will
determine the degree of honor you reap in your own life. Know that your spiritual parents in
the world have been assigned to usher you into the center of God’s plan for your life. By
dishonoring or lightly esteeming them, you are delaying yourself. Acknowledge the place that
the Lord has given them and never allow a negative word about them to proceed from your
mouth (Ephesians 6:1-3).
- Guard your heart in such a way that the abundance of your heart will speak words of life and
not death. The more devoted you become in speaking words filled with the Spirit, the more
the efficiency of your authority will increase. Things will be so different in your life if you
would devote yourself to speak words of life and not death. Acknowledge that you have
received the divine character of Jesus Christ. Let all your actions be garnished with the fruit
of the Spirit, for this is what it means to walk in the Spirit.
This is something you are unable to do by your own efforts. It will flow from your degree of
fellowship with the Holy Spirit. Rely on Him to make you the exact reflection of Christ.
